Life not happening as you planned? It’s okay!

Life not happening as you planned? It’s okay!

 Hey everyone I thought I would talk about the way my life really hasn’t taken the path that I planned. However more importantly why that’s okay! & the same goes for you and the life you have!

I have been thinking lately about where I am in my life and if I am ok it. Truth be told if I was to ask myself that question a few months ago, I could write a huge list about why I am DEFINITELY not ok with it.

I’m sure so many of us that have been through that stage (not being ok with the way life is going). This may have been not knowing what job to pursue (I’ve been there and I am still there). Maybe looking at some of your  school friends becoming home owners with their boyfriends & getting the cutest little rescue dog (I see you KD, making the PP’s proud).

So many different things that can make us feel a bit down because it’s not what we planned for our future. What I have realised lately is that it really is ok for things to go a bit pear-shaped sometimes or take an unexpected turn.

Like the picture says your life is literally just rearranging and everything will fall into place. It is hard not to worry about it sometimes. My gosh I had everything planned and my bubble was soon burst when I realised that it wasn’t happening. I was going to Uni, I was moving to London, I knew when I wanted a family the lot! Did any of that happen? NOPE! 

However like I’ve said previously I’m the happiest I have been in a long time & that is what counts! Yes I’m not where I thought I would be at nearly 21. However I know good things will come soon enough! I can literally feel it! As long as I work hard and focus on me then the rest will fall into place.I think anyone who is worried about this should think like that as well because it will save you so much stress.

Life is what you make it!

– life is too short for stressing over something you should be enjoying

If you work for it the rest will follow (especially career wise). Though if you take anything from this post please just don’t get down when things take a different path. It is supposed to happen. While at the same time moulding you into the person you are meant to be in the future.

It’ll probably be better than you expected!

So just be patient and it’ll happen. You may find that some things will happen before others. People will love and leave you in order for new people to enter your life. Some will have a huge impact and some may come and go but they’ll always be there when you need them.  You’ll have different jobs. Times when you don’t know what job you want. You’ll have those phases of thinking “omg what am I doing with my life”. Just remember all of this is normal and is life!

Just live your best life and make as many memories as you can and just let it happen! Life really is too short! 


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